Ms34ths have some solutions to prevent another heartbreaking friendship!
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1. A true friend will want the best for you.
They care for you so they want to see you contented by living life to its fullest. They want to put in their efforts to make sure you will rise up to your capabilities and utilize the gifts that God has given you. They don’t want to see you being miserable or wallowing in self-pity because of the wrong choices you may have made.
2. A true friend will accept you regardless of your shortcomings and weaknesses.
Despite the grave or not-so-grave mistakes that you have committed, all the horrible things you may have done or even your ‘retard-ness’ and your ‘unglam-ness’, a true friend will still forgive you. Though they may sometimes get upset by your actions, they will never give up on you as they view you as a person who can be moulded and be changed for the better under much guidance and not just a stubborn person who is unwilling to change. A true friend will occasionally give you a tiny nudge to get you to the correct path so that you can continue walking in the right direction.
3. A true friend only cares on how you look on the inside and not on the outside.
A friend only cares about your heart, attitude and mind. Always work together and never abandon one for another as true friends are forever.
4.True friends are friends who appreciate you for what you are.
They do not despise you because of your character, looks or maybe even for your lousy fashion sense!
5.True friends help each other to change for the better.
They are not those fair-weathered friends who often avoid us when we are in times of need of, for example, money. True friends will always be by our side to support us in times of need and joy. _________________
Tips: In our everyday lives, we are bound to meet new people and make friends with them. However, the level of trust we have in each and every new person that we meet depends on how trustworthy they are.
So, how do we know if a person is truthful to us or not? Well, we just have to observe him or her from time to time time when he or she is unaware of your presence. This is to determine what kind of personality that person has. If we feel that that person’s personality is not suited to you, then you can consider him or her to be your mutual friend. But if his or her personality suits you, why not take the chance to make friends with that person? However, in order to be able to make friends with others, I feel that we must first be a true friend to others.
And how exactly can we be one? 1. Firstly, we must assess ourselves. We must curb all bad habits that we possess by nature. Examples are: If we lose our cool easily, we should try to be more patient. If we have the habit of using foul language every time we communicate with others, we definitely have to stop that habit.
2. Secondly, true friends do not mind about your status in the society. Thus, we must appreciate others for who they are and not what they are. We must also know how much we should trust each individual through their character and not mix with bad company. _____________
To those who have lost faith in friendships: Do not give up because there are still many other people waiting for you to be their friends,and you could find one that can suits you the best!
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